Dear All,
Majority of suicides are the outcome of mental illness or psychologically disturbed condition. unless we deal with the core issue, there is no change. Whether, it is a farmer's suicide, medical/engineering student/Ph.D., It's all same. The causal factors are very diverse and complex. We can not blame VC/Principal or institutions for this. It does not mean they are right and forgiven. I completely agree with that their behaviour might have made these student feel more hopeless and helpless, but finally it is their choice to take extreme steps rather than finding alternative options/answers. Because we all face similar situations in varied intensities including highly successful leaders. I have not come across any leader's biography, which is full of rosy and golden moments. But have they committed suicide? They fought with whatever their resources and came out successful.
Your personal qualities like open mindedness, hopefulness, resilient nature and social intelligence matters for success in the life.
We need to cautiously analyse media reports. There are 80 success people, 10-15 are mediocre and 2-4 may be failures. 1-2 cases failed and committed suicide.
They do not publish these reports, they publish either suicides or gold medalists.
Life is lot there in the median.
It does not mean that I am favoring suicides over unethical behaviours of management.
I feel for the lost lives of those girls. May God bless them and their soul rest in peace. May God give us the energy fight corruption, callousness and apathy.
Regards,
Prof. Vijendra Kumar S.K.
Assistant Professor & Counseling Psychologist
Centre for Counseling and Career Guidance
PES University, Bengaluru.
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