Cameroonian Women (Sensitive Email)

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From: "Fred.kemah" <fred.kemah@hotmail.co.uk>
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Ladies & Gentlemen,

 

This sensitive email is the outcome from personal experience based on a confrontational study about  Cameroonians  based in continental Europe and the UK. (This study  was confined within the Cameroonian population ).

 

Below is a radiography of an extract of the situation.

 

In continental Europe,  notably :  Italy, Belgium, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Greece, to a lesser extent France, the demand for Cameroonian  women is very high.  In fact  up to 80%  of our sisters  in Europe are in their second marriage.  The guys are finding it hard to have a chap in Europe.  There are fewer Cameroonian girls in Europe Compared to the UK and US.

 

There is plenty of evidence to support rumours that girls from the US and particularly from the UK have had to travel to Europe with a view to making their  dream possible (getting married).

 

In the UK, the contrary applies with more girls desperate to have a man. Literally  there are more women than men.  It is curious to elucidate on the fact that percentage wise, the divorce rate amongst Cameroonians is higher in the UK compared with ourselves in continental Europe.

 

Below is a comprehensive list of facts to justify the above.

a)      UK women are more academically educated than  the continental once and are very conscious of the laws in favour of the female sex. They swiftly make recourse to the courts and only to end up lonely and often in tears.

        B)  UK women are not humble and are very confrontational. Most have completely forgotten our tradition and culture in terms of matrimonial life.

       c)  UK women are too money –minded . And they often put monetary interest ahead of love . Most men will take off.

      d) During matrimonial crisis most UK women  particularly of Anglophone origin, will inundate you with anonymous text messages, an indirect way to express their frustration about the end of the relationship.

     e) Most UK women tend to suppress their partners at home. This is the number one cause of separation.

     f) Most UK women are extremely possessive and also suffer with lack of self-confidence probably because of the overwhelming numbers of rivals desperately waiting.

 

CONSTATATION: you must have realized that 90% of us settling in the UK from continental Europe are married to our sisters from continental Europe.

 

The girls from Europe are superior to the girls in the UK for family planning and  will easily create a happy matrimonial home in many respects.

a)      They are filled with self confidence.

b)      They are less money-minded.

c)       They hardly go to the courts against their partners. ( it is not a  Cameroonian-European culture)

d)      They care about family and their relatives.

e)      They are not confrontational

f)       They have a clear distinction about the role of a man.

g)      They will hardly challenge their husband in front of friends .

h)      They are very good at cleaning and cooking . This could be motivated on the basis that whilst in Europe you have to do some domestic work in order to make ends meet. In pidgin parlance boy-boy for a couple of years before you settle.

i)        If you look at the track record of a continental girl, the issue of numerous previous partners is a rarity. This could explain why there is a high rate of re-marriage in Europe compared to the UK.

 

Conclusion:

The purpose of this email, composed in August 2007 but posted today is to stress the importance of cultural differences amongst women of Cameroon origin settling in Europe and in the UK.

 

As a girl, provided you keep to a certain decorum , your chances of settling in a happy matrimonial home in Europe is higher than in the UK . In the latter, the community is toxic and there is hardly a positive remark or recommendation for a third party.

 

It is evident that our girls in the US and in the UK are systematically being misled by this society apparently in favour of women especially from a matrimonial point of view.  This in my opinion has damaged our ways of living a matrimonial life and it is clearly against the principles of our tradition  and culture back home.

 

The only justification for the above is that we are living in a different society. However,  our values as Africans  are different from those in this society .

 

I have never seen a Zaire family in court. Listen to what they sing whilst we dance:

 

Ba Ndeko,  Bo Kebba. L'assistance social  bosso landaka, bango, baso luka  divorce na  biso pona mussala  ya  bango. Tozala Mayele.

 

Literally,

Family people, be careful, this social workers we are referring to are simply working for our divorce in order to safe guard their jobs. Let us  be wise and be able to sort out our differences.

 

Have a nice day.