Dear Prof Goel, Where do you draw a line between the so called "pretending" and the "reality" in case of anger? Dosent the "pretending" end up in "reality" in most situations be it with your child or anybody for that matter?
Warm rgds
Dr. Pradeep B. Salgaonkar, Ph.D.(Management)
Director,
Sri Sri Institute of Management Studies
Margao, Goa - 403561
Mobile: +91 9881101623
--- On Fri, 25/1/13, Virendra Goel <goel.virendra@gmail.com> wrote:
From: Virendra Goel <goel.virendra@gmail.com>
Subject: RE: [MTC Global] Anger Management
To: join_mtc@googlegroups.com
Date: Friday, 25 January, 2013, 6:56 PM
There is definitely a pretended anger that we normally use with children – we are really not angry inside but we act angry to convey something that will prevent a child do certain activity, certain behaviour or use certain language. Regards Virendra Goel From: join_mtc@googlegroups.com [mailto:join_mtc@googlegroups.com] On Behalf Of pradeep salgaonkar
Sent: Friday, January 25, 2013 11:07 AM
To: join_mtc@googlegroups.com
Cc: vemugantiramesh@gmail.com
Subject: Re: [MTC Global] Anger Management Dear Prof.Prabhakar Waghodekar, Just as there is no stage where we call a to be mother as "slightly pregnant" there is nothing called as "pretending anger". Anger is Anger only the degree varies.
Dr. Pradeep B. Salgaonkar, Ph.D.(Management)
Director,
Sri Sri Institute of Management Studies
Margao, Goa - 403561
Mobile: +91 9881101623
--- On Thu, 24/1/13, Prabhakar Waghodekar <waghodekar@rediffmail.com> wrote:
From: Prabhakar Waghodekar <waghodekar@rediffmail.com>
Subject: Re: [MTC Global] Anger Management
To: join_mtc@googlegroups.com
Cc: vemugantiramesh@gmail.com
Date: Thursday, 24 January, 2013, 4:32 PM
Dear All,
Thanks to Prof. Ramesh Vemuganti for highlighting the pros and cons of anger and anger management.
To me anger is not an innate quality. It is acquired because of such reasons as hate, jealousy, fear, fear of loosing something, failure, frustration, disappointment,greediness, resistance to happenings taking place against what we desire, challenge to ego, challenge to status, etc. Anger is a big killer. And one must know how to control it., not suppressing but understanding the real nature of anger and its effects on body, mind and career. Thus, if one reaches the root cause of anger and its negative impact on the individual and the surrounding environment, anger will automatically vanish.
But also note that anger is sometimes necessary. This is not the real type of anger but the pretending anger for the good of other. It is sometimes useful to be angry with your naughty kid to put him on the right habits. But this anger is out of love.
Regards.
Yours,
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On Sun, 20 Jan 2013 10:37:09 +0530 wrote
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Dear Colleagues, Friends, Associates
A soothing & cool mail for the weekend on " Anger Management"..
I am forwarding a mail which affects each one of us, some point of time.
The message is extremely useful & prevents major health ailments.
My observation :
High achievers have controlled & overcome Anger to accomplish several things.
regards,
Ramesh Vemuganti
The Evolution Of Anger
We
become a little irritated when we are stuck in a traffic jam and we
getting late to reach somewhere on time, or we are not going to complete
a particular task, as per our expectations or if someone whom we very
well know decides to ignore us today, for some reason or the other. If
this
seed of irritation is watered, or in other words it is given the
concentrated energy of our attention i.e. we continue with the
irritation for some time, it slowly grows or evolves into frustration. Unless
we take some constructive inner action to stop the growth of the
frustration and
we keep energizing it, it will grow or evolve into anger. And if this
happens regularly and we are not careful, it will become a habit, a part
of our personality, which we will finally come to believe is a natural
part of your nature. We will even think we were born with it. That it is
'in our genes'. Every
time we become angry we cause the production of certain chemicals in
our body and we also become addicted to those chemicals - then we look
for people and situations which will give us an excuse to get angry so
that we can have our daily dose of chemicals. We not only become
attached to material objects, people, ways of thinking, beliefs etc. -
we also become attached to our emotions like the emotion of anger. The
regular secretion of these chemicals will finally kill our body. We
don't need to kill our body. We
need to accept that anger is never ever productive, know that it is
just not necessary to be angry with anyone or about anything, know that
it is entirely our own creation and know that we can choose a different
response. If we know and accept that, we will experience freedom from
it. ANGER is a deadly Killer will kill us only. It is ONLY WE, repeat ONLY WE can control our anger by adopting
Forget Forgive attitude.
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